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Monday: What’s New ?

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Today is FIFTY, day seven.

Having a supporting role, in sobriety, is much easier, than being the LEAD actor. I’d rather come in quietly, and do some manual labor, setting up, and sit out front, and saying hello to people. I think, and I said this to one of my guys on the way home that:

Manual Labor is a requirement for sobriety. You have to spend some time doing the grunt work (as long as you can). I think service is THE cornerstone of anyone’s sobriety.

Service is something I learned to do, and still DO to this very day.

So it went, Tonight, we traveled across town to the entertainment sector of the city, where our Performing Arts Center is located. Place Des Arts. This is the HUB of Montreal’s Concert/Ballet/Symphony/Music Festivals … You name it.

It is where we gather to have some serious fun.

The Monday meeting is just up the hill from here. Notre Dame De la Sallette Church.

Monday Central is a well attended meeting. We had decided to change-up the game after completing a full reading of The Big Book, last week.

We were sitting out front tonight, as one of my elder friends, and another elder sober friend approached. They were surprised to see us. Others felt the need to change-up their routines as well, from where we had been going for so long.

Changing up your routine is necessary sometimes. My friend told me that when he gets into a funk about people and places and cliques, it is time to move on and go somewhere else.

We read from the Big Book, Page 92, in fact on “Working with Others.”

This passage talks about working with an alcoholic. And you can imagine, as it was said tonight that, back in 1939, when the book came out, Bill and Dr. Bob had their work cut out for themselves.

Imagine meeting a contact, via a wife, or a doctor or a hospital, someone who probably. really knew HOW to Drink … There was no A.A. There were no meetings. No television commercials.

In its Infancy, it was The Book, and that was it.

It was Dr. Bob and Bill, sitting with a real Winner …

The passage talks about what our role is when working with another. And how everything that matters, is about telling our TRUTH. Sharing the message of recovery as we have recovered, and how that went down for us. Speaking about what happened to US, honestly. That’s it.

Your Experience.

There were a few young people sitting in the room tonight, that when THEY got the message given to them, insanity erupted, and they took to sobriety like wild fire. And in their zeal for recovery, tried to bring their friends and fellows, along for the ride.

They know today, in listening to them talk tonight, just how bad they cranked up the message and made it all about their opinions and not a whole lot about personal experience.

Sometimes we need to return to the roots of the program and listen to what the book actually says, and how this program works.

Sobriety is SO different in 2017, than it was in 1939.

The stakes are just as high. Alcoholism is still alcoholism. And a drinker, is still a drinker.

The chance that someone had heard of A.A. before they hit the rooms are higher today, than yesterday. Imagine what it was like 80 years ago ?

Today, one of the MAIN struggles we hear over and over ad nauseam, is God. God is mentioned over and over in the book, and God is seriously, the biggest DOWNER for people across the board.

If God was your only problem, you wouldn’t be sitting in the room, would you ?

High Roller drunks of the 1940’s were a serious problem, just as the High Roller drunks are today, only today, you can bet, that alcohol is not their only vice. Times have changed.

And they haven’t changed for the better.

How do you stay sober at age FIFTY ???

I don’t know, myself. But I am figuring it out one day at a time.

I follow the men who participate in my own personal sobriety. I do what they do. I go to meetings they go to. And I listen to what they say to me.

Not everyone is meant to STAY, people come and go. At certain points, sober roads might diverge. The lesson there is to Let Go, absolutely, and Let God. That was good advice tonight.

If You are stuck in addiction, somewhere far, or somewhere near, there is help.

Over the past few months, I’ve been asked to sponsor rehab’s in the U.S. on the blog.

I have done this gladly, if someone out there needs help, and you read these pages.

Drug Rehab.Com and Elevate Rehab.org …

The links are on the sidebar, on the right hand side. If you click the links, they will take you where you need to go, if you need help.

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